Sunday, July 3, 2011

Touching your heart, out-bound camp

Recently, some of you always saying NO when you are will be "repaired",  What would you want to do is "hang-out", something funny, or nature-based activities. We know it, we are research it on. Well, we make as you want. OutBound, yess !!!,

Let me explain about what its mean and its function and all related this activities.
OutBound is came from "out" and "boundaries", you will be touched in other than the common ways, you are introduced to what the deep meaning of little things in your daily activities which is meaningful to improve your self. Common issues will always lay form are : religion and humanity. Both are the basic sense that everyone involved.
The main function is repairing your soul, make you well understanding the deepest meaning of your goal in this world, Some kind of outbound setup with different package for their own goal reason.
Package of out bound ?, is rarely people know, some of professional trainer were hide this, why ?, simple answer : to make if effectively encouraging you, make you flowing their scenarios. They are so many packages with different usage and function and steps, but really, i thought it was our badness that always use instantly without understanding the package usage and steps. The light bad-effect of using it instantly is "borred" for the attendees, while worse effect is disorder (mad attendees), How can it be ?!


Well,  either the steps or package must be consequently running well in their duly-rules. The common step are stretching,  warming, storming and resting (i use my own words here, i forgot). Every steps has some packages which is cannot changed each other.Its going improper while you combine it without any knowledge in psychology, the rules of packages is only teach on master level. All package must be strictly obey, no offense, its like dangles on the string which is cannot changed.


Trus kesalahanya apa ?, hmm.. kita ini terbiasa menerima instan, begitu ikut, trus merasa ngerti sendiri cara gurunya seperti itu ahirnya di implementasikan seperti itu. dan itu selalu di ulang2 tiap acara, wal hasil ?, yang paling simple ya BOORRRED itu, yg byk di temui adalah, krn mangkel nya ketika outbound belum tuntas, malah di rumah marah2 gak jelas. karena dia blum di tahap penenangan.

Ada cerita sedikit tentang ini, ketika ada 1 kelompok "guru" (di bidang religion) dimana ada yang sudah sering melakukan bimbingan mental ke adik2 kelasnya di kampus ternyata jg ikut di situ, Apa yang terjadi ?, si trainernya bingung, karena orang2 ini gak bs di alirkan emosi mereka, untuk ke tahap warming aja susah sekali, kenapa demikian ?, karena mereka punya kesabaran yang sangat. Berbeda dengan anak2 kecil atau para ababil yang mereka gampang sekali untuk marah atau terbawa suasana. Bahkan beliau baru bisa membawa saya ke tahap warming setelah di ahir acara ada seorang ibu yang di paksa sampe nangis di depan umum. Hampir aja mukul orang gara gara itu. :D .. he make me remembering my mother.


Acara acara yang common, seperti jalan, trus di buat cape, trus jaring laba, kecepatan buat lingkaran, botol pensil, menyebrangi sungai, tali temali, amanat telur, jembatan orang, water fall, mata tertutup jalan, di sendirikan di malam hari pake lilin (hehe,saya malah sangat menikmati dan bisa tidur di situ, haha orang lain takut dan lain sebagainya, saya malah santai sekali di yg ini), menyebrang tali, menara orang, dlsb.. hampir semua acara itu pernah dan mungkin its being bad for me, saking seringnya di kampus liat dan mengalami dan malah jadi man behind scene nya, ahirnya gak panas2 ketika acara inti bahkan udah mau ahir. ck ck ck...


Hubungan antara trainer / fasilitator dengan anak buahnya juga sangat penting, beberapa kali saya jadi fasilitator dan kelompokku selalu berhasil buat bendungan orang untuk membendung sungai dan buat menara orang, dan ketika acara MTI di Bali, kamipun berhasil, see ?, kenapa ?, i thing murid2ku punya ikatan emosi yang kuat dengan ku, dan mereka trust, sehingga its simple to manage them.


Sampai sekarang, ikatan kami masih kuat, they always contact me to get advice or just say hello or to inform something..

Summary :
Sebelum jadi trainer harus ngerti dulu step2nya dan package nya dan cara menrangkai package itu seperti apa.

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